My initial reaction to this was, “Everyone calm the fuck down.”

But then I thought about it.

It is disturbing that we neither have a term that is equivalent to ‘slut’ that refers to the masculine nor does is the word ‘slut’ gender/sex neutral.

Use of the word ‘slut,’ which is a sex-divisive and subsequently disparaging word, is not good.

If martinmgn.tumblr meant that he doesn’t want to date a woman whose behavioral and moral standards he finds unfavorable, then that is what he should have said — but consider whether that is worth saying. The ‘#respectyourself,’ I think, is well-intended, but that makes this statement an all the more disturbing reflection of what goes on in our real-life and net culture.